A CRAPPY LIFE

What to talk about......

      I can't exactly think of what to name this particular post.   So that's all I got.   You know we all
have daily things that bug or annoy us.  Some of us feel the need to share them via a social media
outlet and that's quite alright with me, shoot post on 'cause every now and then you'll have a good
friend that says just the right things to lift you on up out of your slump.   To me it isn't any different
than calling up a few of your friends and tellin' them about it.  If you haven't added every Tom, Dick,
and Harry and have chosen to keep your friends list conservative only adding and/or accepting those
whom you know personally then you should be just fine.   Lately I have ventured back out into the
adding of folks of which I am acquanted with but do not know on a personal level and while this works fine
for me because if you know me at all or have had the pleasure/displeasure of talking to me in person
then you'll also realize fairly quickly that I am an OPEN BOOK.  I always have been.   You know I
say this often that people that "don't talk," worry me.   I am speaking of those who just sit and look
like they are too good to speak with you.   Now this of course excludes those who are so completely
introverted that it is physically impossible for them to open up.   I have anxiety issues myself so I can
relate to feeling frozen.  My anxiety is directly linked to our children and their safety and most everyone can understand where that would stem from.     Anyhow, off topic I surely went, as I so often do during "live" conversation.       
        Back to the posting and "what to talk about".  I as well as everyone else in the free world has daily things that come up, mostly first world problems,  but I do have some rather serious daily
struggles that I do not publicy speak of.    Like I said before I am an open book, except this ole book has one pretty dark chapter.   No I don't judge everyones problems in comparison to what we went through and the loss we all had to endure.   I'd be pretty miserable.   But I do often wonder if people every really just sit back and think on things before they post them.   I'm all up for venting, shoot vent on....and I'm up for playing around too but when it is over and over letting on that your life is a sess pool of utter sadness that is when I start to go O_o.  If I posted everyday the struggles I have with worry/anxiety over the kids, the little mis-happenings that go on in our household,  the fact that there is too much week at the end of Dustys paycheck,   my cooking mishaps,  family issues, my wt gain/loss (always leaning towards the gain!),  then our life would start to look pretty shitty (sorry language!).  But the fact of the matter is we've been there and WE KNOW WHAT LIFE BEING CRAPPY LOOKS LIKE!!    And it sure ain't what some people thinks it is.  (I have people in my life and i often wonder how they manage to get up each day and face their challenges.)  HERE GOES:  It ain't being anxious over the kids being out of sight, it ain't the dog pissing in the floor,  it ain't having an overdrawn bank account, it ain't screwing up the cobbler,  or your mama not hardly talking to you, it ain't being overwieght......and out of all these things that I know life being shitty ain't I can tell you a few things that a life compared to fecal matter is:   It's your loved one dying of cancer,  your spouse/child being deployed,  losing someone unexpectedly in an automobile accident,  finding out your child has a terminal disease and not having proper insurance coverage,  finding out your spouse is being unfaithful,  worrying how you are gonna feed your family and buy gas to get to work,  having an illness that is invisble to the outside world but has dramatically changed your life,  your house and all its belongings lost in a fire, and lastly losing your six month old daughter when you thought she was safely napping in the next room.   So the next time you want to post about your life full of it's tormoil and terror you just sit back and reckon who  you got on your friends list.   If you are a true friend then you'll take into consideration their feelings.   Now I ain't saying walk on eggshells on my accout, LAW NO...but please if you are going to seek support from FB or any other media outlet be ready as well to offer it and that might very well come in the form of stuffing your pettyness back in your nap sack for the day and find a reason to be happy 'cause even though you may see your "spilled milk" situation as an emergency worthy of a color rating I assure you you will be able to find somebody worse off and they are probably located in the little box on the right side of your profile (timeline of course).   

 This week I've had a lot of good times and a few hard times.   Let's just talk about the good!  My
sisterinlaw is in from Kentucky and we've had the best time laughing, shopping, cutting up, and well
eating...'till tonight when I suddenly had a date with RALPH....but anyhow we've had the best time I've had in a long time.   Today we was just talking while shopping for tmws barbecue that you know what we better laugh while we can because you never know when something horrilble is going to happen.   I am not suggesting one live their life on the wild side thinking they are invincible...NO...but don't go around mad at the world neither.   It will sure wiegh you down.  Don't take yourself too seriously.  People are gonna talk about you no matter what,  if you're too happy they'll say you don't care about how things are or what happened....if you are too sad, they'll say you've lost your mind and you're overreacting.   Truly it's a no win situation.  SO LAUGH IT UP...SMILE AS OFTEN AS YOU CAN...AND HAVE A GOOD OLE TIME NO MATTER WHO IS LOOKING.......oh and last but not least....quit yer belly aching it's a safe bet your neighbor has had a worst day than you.

                                 ----GLORY BE TO GOD THAT I STILL HAVE A DESIRE TO WRITE ANYTHING BE IT POSITVE OR NOT---
         

Quite a year!

Hello Everyone,
          Well it's been a bit ain't it?   I started this blog with full intentions of logging in daily
with anecdotes adorned with random pics of us doing random things.    Well that never panned
out.   I'm not exactly sure of the reason for my complete abandonment of my writing venture.  
Perhaps I was swallowed up by a mound of laundry,  in a trance in front of the sink scrubbing that darn cast iron pan, or we have been in a time warp like existence between the post office, grocery store, school, doctors office, and home.   Did anyone see a silver streak out of the corner of their eye?  That very likely could had been us with me as the pilot completely avoiding my duties as a "blog writer".   HAHAHAHA, Truth is I've been being a wife to my husband and a mother to our children over the past year. 
       We've had quite a year I'll have to say.   Our anniversary is coming up this month and looking back at the first post of this little blog makes me :).    Taking up blogging I am ^O_O^ so if you get bored of looking at all the shared photos on FB from places like "You gotta laugh man" and "Dude this is so inappropriate it's cool" then mozey (sp?) on over here and check out what our little household is up to.   


GOODNIGHT FRIENDS AND HOPE TO SEE YOU SOON (yes I know major cheese)